Women who test positive for HIV infection fear loss of
control
over their lives, possible loss of their children and housing, and the ultimate loss of social supports. For this reason, many
women who are tested and who test HIV-antibody positive keep the information secret. Women who are infected tend to
isolate themselves and often hide their diagnosis even
from members of their own families.
Siecus Report, 1991
Women have traditionally cared for others and put others’ needs ahead
of their
own. When a woman discovers that she is HIV positive, she now is the
one who
needs to ask for help. If you are a woman living with HIV, one of the
first
things to do is to talk to someone you trust. This may be a relative, a
friend,
your doctor, the clergy, or another woman living with HIV. Many women
join a
support group. In group you can learn how others are dealing with their
infection. You discover, with relief, that you are not alone and that
you now
have new friends who understand your experiences.
Let’s Talk Positive, a support group for HIV-positive women
will meet
each Thursday for eight weeks, beginning July 20, 5:30-7pm. The group
is
sponsored by People’s Community Clinic. It is free, confidential,
inclusive,
and recovery sensitive. Please call for information and location.
Lois VanLaningham
LMSW-ACP
Facilitator
This article appears in July 7 • 1995 and July 7 • 1995 (Cover).