Women who test positive for HIV infection fear loss of control over their
lives, possible loss of their children and housing, and the ultimate loss of
social supports. For this reason, many women who are tested and who test
HIV-antibody positive, keep the information secret. Women who are infected
tend to isolate themselves and often hide their diagnosis even from members of
their own families.
— Siecus Report,1991
Women have traditionally cared for others and put other’s needs ahead of their
own. When a woman discovers that she is HIV positive, she now is the one who
needs to ask for help. If you are a woman living with HIV, one of the first
things to do is to talk to someone you trust. This may be a relative, a
friend, your doctor, the clergy, or another woman living with HIV. Many women
join a support group. In groups you can learn how others are dealing with their
infection. You discover, with relief, that you are not alone and that you now
have new friends who understand your experiences.
Let’s Talk Positive, a support group for HIV positive women, is now taking
referrals. The group is sponsored by People’s Community Clinic. It is free,
confidential, inclusive, and recovery-sensitive. Please call for more
information: Lois VanLaningham, LMSW/ACP at 469-6260 or 708-3500.
Lois VanLaningham, LMSW-ACP Facilitator
This article appears in January 26 • 1996 and January 26 • 1996 (Cover).