Women who test positive for HIV infection fear loss of
control
over their lives, possible loss of their children and housing and
the ultimate loss of social supports. For this reason, many women
who are tested and who test HIV-antibody positive, keep the
information secret. Women who are infected tend to isolate
themselves and often hide their diagnosis even from members
of their own families.
Siecus Report, 1991
Women have traditionally cared for others and put other’s needs ahead of their
own. When a woman discovers that she is HIV-positive, she now is the one who
needs to ask for help. If you are a woman living with HIV, one of the first
things to do is to talk to someone you trust. This may be a relative, a
friend, your doctor, the clergy or another woman living with HIV. Many women
join a support group. In group you can learn how others are dealing with their
infection. You discover, with relief, that you are not alone and that you now
have new friends who understand your experiences.
Let’s Talk Positive is a support group for HIV-positive women. The group is
sponsored by People’s Community Clinic. It is free, confidential, inclusive and
recovery-sensitive. Please call for more information, Lois VanLaningham,
LMSW/ACP, at 469-6260 or 708-3500.
Lois VanLaningham, LMSW-ACP
Facilitator
This article appears in September 6 • 1996 and September 6 • 1996 (Cover).